The tarot told us that this month our readers could benefit from a little encouragement about creating a positive balance concerning finances and emotions. Literally the cards drawn from the reading were Exu of Fire, a very strong growth card, and the Exu of the Seven Mountain Yellow Card.
The seven mountains yellow card has a positive and negative aspect to it, each having their own traits respectively. The positive aspect indicates a financial gain as well as a stable emotional outlook regarding other people in your life. The negative aspect of the card indicates a highly emotional and unstable state: not accepting positive changes in life and using emotions to gain certain things for yourself.
Everyone has the Choice to function on the positive or on the negative. If set on ‘auto pilot’, many people already function on the negative because these are traits that western society encourages and rewards in a person, unless that person was otherwise taught or mentored by someone with more wise, enlightened views. It takes recognition and effort from an individual to decide if, and to what degree, they function on their negative traits.
An example is the ‘one up’ concept which is easily seen in our society. We are told it is desirous to be at least ‘one up’ on other people. It’s no longer *keeping up* with the Joneses, it is *outdoing* EVERYONE around us. If our neighbor drives a Mercedes E350, then we want to do better. We need the E550 and one year newer with a few extra options wouldn’t hurt either. On top of that, our co-worker is planning a trip to the Bahamas. So now we need to plan an ever better vacation, and we’ll be driving ourselves to the airport in our new E550 because we ARE ONE UP!
The One-up concept is a pretty negative way to live. It is harmful because obviously it does not encourage people to find a true sense of value or worth, either in material possessions or in happiness to the self. The One-up concept encourages (or at least doesn’t discourage) the use of any means necessary to get One-up including using emotions for personal gain (reference back to the Seven Mountains Yellow card, negative aspect). It also teaches us to view other people as rivals (or even worse, objects of rivalry), which is unhealthy because it reduces another person to be ‘just another competitor which must be outdone!’ This of course comes along with the negative emotions of jealousy, anger, contempt and objectification.
Using your own emotions or, even worse, using other people’s emotions to gain things for yourself is not cool. It’s wrong. To varying levels and degrees, there are plenty of people out there like our Mister or Miss One-upper. You may know people like this, a friend, family member, etc. Be very careful that you do not allow them to disrupt your positive flow. If you see this trait in yourself to any degree, you need to fix it.
So what can be done then to function on the positive side and create a level of growth in our lives that enables the flow of finances and healthy feelings towards others without stress?
I am sure there are many answers to the above question, but we’ll just address some basics. If anyone feels like they would like to add something that is not discussed, please leave a comment!
A stable Self gives one the best possibility to create finances. When you are emotional or upset about something, it is very difficult to create financial gain, and in that frame of mind, money doesn’t seem that important anyway. Which it should be in the sense that you need at least enough to live relatively comfortably without the additional stress of scraping by. Example, if you’ve ever been in a fight with your partner or friend and then have to head off to work, you know how impossible it is to function and focus on your job or business. Emotional stress make us scattered, distracted, indecisive and can zap all sense of drive away. It is impossible to avoid all conflict, of course, even when minding your own business (just try driving in a big city!). So while you can’t control other people, you can control yourself. (Yes, its true. You can control yourself… No excuses!) Find a positive way for you to deal with conflicts in life. Hit the gym, go for a nature walk, do some art, make some music, dance, cook up a great meal just for yourself. Doing something creative or physical allows for more engagement of the senses and of the physical body which tends to bring us ‘back to center’. Above all, when emotions start mucking up your ability to work and generate personal finances, you need to put a stop to it as quickly as possible. At least make a deal with yourself, that while you are at work, you will focus on work and leave behind all other personal distractions until you can deal with them properly later.
Minimize the opportunities for conflict in your life as much as possible by choosing to surround yourself with people who don’t create arguments, drama or negative situations. Choose friends that have your best interests at hand and actually encourage you to succeed for the sheer motive of seeing you succeed, not what they can get from your success. Choose people who are supportive of you verbally, not those who are unnecessarily critical, apathetic (ie: “the too cool to care” syndrome), or verbally discouraging.
Finances beget finances. When you have a little money in your bank account, it’s easier to make more money. It’s not always within your control, but to the extent that it is… Be responsible. It’s much harder to create a consistent financial flow for yourself when you are spend happy or irresponsible with your money. People who live on the ‘feast and famine concept’ only add to their own stress, which makes being financially stable extremely difficult. The ‘feast and famine’ types will get a chunk of money then spend it very quickly, usually on more lavish items. (Why grocery shop for sensible items when we can go out to dinner every night?? Because its lazy and you’ll be broke before you know it, that’s why.) Well, you may know one of these people. After the feast is over, then it’s right back to the famine stage.
If you are not the budgeting type, then become one. Everyone should have a budget no matter how simple. Plan for bills you know and stash some away for unforeseen events. It’s okay to treat yourself (your energy actually wants you to treat yourself once and a awhile) but don’t overdo it. Keeps things in perspective. When treating yourself becomes a habit, it’s not a ‘treat’, it’s unnecessary overspending.
If you are young, starting over on your own, or new to this country, you may not have credit. Do yourself a favor and build your credit (or take steps to re-build it, whatever the case may be.) By having credit, you at least have a fanatical safety net, so that in the event you need to use it, it is there. Building credit is a long and slow process so start as soon as you can. Again, this is the money begets money concept. The more of a stable financial support system you can create for yourself, the easier it will be to create even more finances.
Of course, for most of us finances come from our job or business. Through our January blog post, we encouraged you to make any necessary changes in your life so that you can get stabilized in the first few months of this year, then settle in and kick some butt. This includes your job or career. If you have your own business, then hunker down and really make it happen. Give it your all… Don’t make any excuses! This is a great year to dedicate yourself to making a good run at generating financial gain. It may be helpful to set a few business goals, then set some more when you achieve those.
In all, we are reminded that to keep the finances flowing, it takes some emotional balance as well, in addition to being dedicated and consistent in our areas of business. You can do it!
So that’s our blog this month.
If you need some help maybe clearing your mind a little, try the ritual to clear your mind that we posted back in our August 2011 Blogpost, link: http://www.mountainrainbowark.com/blog/?p=38.
Keep yourself cleansed by doing your energy baths and candles. Ward off that external negativity!
You can burn a money drawing candle for yourself on your altar but also remember to do your best at staying emotionally stable so that the candle can work for you like it is supposed to.
Sometimes all it takes to get started on a better path is just to start.
Here is an easy financial candle that you can make:
White glass pillar candle (called seven day candles)
Cinnamon powder
Bay powder, or you can grind or crush the leaves yourself into small pieces
To prepare the candle, poke a hole in the wax with an implement, like a screwdriver. Make the hole at least a few inches deep, not too close to the wick or to the glass edge of the candle. Write your name with a pencil 8 times on a piece of paper. Write it small. Write your name eight times one underneath the other, like in a column. Cut the larger sheet of paper to make it smaller by cutting out the block of names. Now it will be small enough to put in the candle. Roll up the small paper with the names facing inward. Put it into the hole you made in the candle wax. Sprinkle the cinnamon and bay mixture into the hole as well on top of your name.
Burn the candle on your altar. It is a good idea to always burn candles inside of a larger bowl with water in the event the candle does crack or break.
Have a great March!
Don’t forget to visit us at our first Harmony Market held March 22nd from 4-8pm at the Holiday Inn, in Bozeman, MT. Call our store for more info: #406-224-3768
As always, we would be energized to hear from you! Leave your comments below and remember to get your necessary spiritual goodies from our Livingston store or online, available 24/7.












